Where do you live/work primarily?
Now that you’re more than half a century old, is sex as good for you as it was when you were:
In what ways do you consider it better now?
In general please keep your responses succinct. Thanks!
In what ways do you consider it less satisfying?
What do you consider "good sex"?
How often do you have sex?
Ideally, how often would you like to have sex?
Is your sex life less active now than before you turned 50? If so, why?
You can choose as many as apply...
What is the difference between making love and having sex? Or are they the same?
Give this one some thought... you can wax poetic if you want:)
How many partners have you had?
Have you ever had a threesome? If yes...
Ever swapped partners?
Ever taken photos of you and your partner during sex?
Ever made a sex video?
Do you look at pornography more or less than before you turned fifty?
How often do you masturbate?
Hate the word, but the feeling ain't bad...
How often do you fantasize about sex?
If you fantasize, what are those fantasies about?
Any or all of the above...
If we missed your particular fantasy, we’d love to know what it is:
Don't worry, we're not easily shocked. And besides, that's the beauty of fantasy - it's your world and you rule it.
Do you fantasize about sex more or less since you have turned fifty?
Do you use fantasy during sex with your partner? Elaborate if you like.
Ever use role playing during sex? Like who plays what?
Do you like to get kinky?
What do you consider kinky?
Have you ever:
choose any or all
What is your favorite sex toy?
Ever had sex in a more or less public place?
Describe if you like.
If yes to any of these questions above, do any apply to your recent or current experience?
Mention which, if you like.
Do you like 'talking dirty'
Do you like your partner to 'talk dirty'?
Do you have any performance anxieties?
Is the high hard one as hard as it was before fifty?
Is pre-mature ejaculation an issue?
If you answered yes to any of the 3 questions above, how has it affected your libido/sex life?
This feels like an important question. Since we want everyone to have a happy sex life, we want to examine where the obstacles are.
Have you ever used Viagra, Cialis or Levitra? If so what has your experience been?
When you look in the mirror are you ok with the way your body looks?
Do you have any anxiety over the size of your “package”?
Do you still consider yourself desirable?
How important is foreplay to you?
How do you feel about oral sex?
Elaborate if you like.
Would you rather perform oral sex on your partner or have your partner perform oral sex on you?
What is the biggest turn on for you sexually?
Don't be shy.
Please check all the below that apply as to why you enjoy sex:
How far are you willing to go to please your partner?
Are you looking for something different from your sexual experience now than you did before you turned fifty?
As you have gotten older, do you find it easier or harder to talk about sex with your partner?
Do you feel more or less connected to the experience of your partner?
What do you find the sexiest feature about a woman?
Do you find a woman’s sexuality at all baffling or do you get it?
What do you find attractive about younger women?
What do you find attractive about older women?
In what way do women become better sex partners as they get older?
Notice we've given you room to expand on this one:)
With whom would you prefer to have sex:
Check all that apply.
If you are not currently in a relationship, with whom would you rather have a relationship:
Explain your answer to the preceding question:
Who initiates sex in your current relationship?
Would you like to see your partner take more initiative in your sex life?
Do you like to cuddle and talk after sex or fall asleep?
Have you become more creative in bed as you have gotten older? If so, please say how.
What are some things you would like to do sexually that you haven’t yet done?
Surprise us! Or not:)
What is your take on monogamy; is it a realistic state of affairs?
Do you feel you take full responsibility for the quality of your sex life?
What is your greatest fear about being over fifty?
What is your greatest joy about being over fifty?